why is it that as soon as you start going out with someone...

[EverythingIsRENT]

Posted: 2/3/05 at 9:05pm

EVERY single guy finally starts to notice you?? It's unbelievable!! I like the attention; makes me feel like i'm hot stuff! Still very odd and frustrating though!

[Rose_MacShane]

Posted: 2/3/05 at 9:07pm

Because the universe is just unfair that way.

[Mythus]

Posted: 2/3/05 at 9:07pm

With a "someone" on your arm, you're often more confident, assured, and happy. Maybe that's why men notice you more - the way you carry yourself. I have no idea, I'm a lesbian. I don't notice men, and they don't notice me.

[CATSNYrevival]

Posted: 2/3/05 at 9:19pm

guys want what they can't have.

[Greekmusicalfan]

Posted: 2/3/05 at 9:23pm

Well, I do notice men, since I am gay, but I believe women have the exact -if not worse- same reaction. I've seen it happen. When you are single and you want to be noticed, it rarely happens. When you finally find someone, all the gorgeous creatures throw themselves at you ! I could never explain it, but I believe it's universal ! Have we come to a point where something is worth only if we take it from someone else ? I don't know

Take cae Updated On: 2/3/05 at 09:23 PM

[CurtainUp]

Posted: 2/3/05 at 9:35pm

Agree with Mythus. WHen I first dated my current boyfrined, my confidence went up the wazoo around other guys too. You find YOURSELF more attractive also. Also, I think that guys kind of think "Well if HE likes her, there must be something..." which is kind of how I gained more guy friends. "Oh well if shes dating HIM then there must be something about her i dont really know"