You tell them now. If you dont, you are a liar -plain and simple. Your obligation is to the first show you commit to. IF they cast while keeping in mind your limitations, great.
And Im going to put this out there: ypu dont audition for plays just to be the lead. Your attitude is going to get in your way.
Awww....I can't see what you posted - the link is showing up as broken.
I guess the OP didn't like my honesty.
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