We are all different. We all enjoy different things. And we should be allowed express how we feel without the fear of getting bullied. Then allow everyone to be what YOU label "bitchy," "arrogant," "nasty or "negative" without bullying everyone into acting exactly the way YOU think they should.
If you don't like what someone says, don't read their thread or post. If that doesn't work, fight with them. When you get tired of fighting, melt down, leave the board and come back with a different screen name.
But for Patti's sake! DON'T become one of those sanctimonious prigs who always criticizes everybody else's behavior because only YOU know how we should behave.