I stage doored for the first time after the 8/12 3pm performance of Hairspray and the only reason I did it then was to try and say hi to someone I know in the production.
I had my younger sister with me and she was a big NSYNCer and Lance was her favorite. I told her not to expect to see Lance because I was sure he'd sneak out some other door.
Much to my surprise and my sister's delight not only was Lance the first person out the stage door but he signed for everyone. I don't know if he posed for pictures because I wasn't watching him but from what I did see he wasn't at all rude.
Meeting celebs is such a crazy thing. Two different people can meet one person on different days and have different stories to tell. I mostly have met MLB players and they're MUCH harder to talk with than theatre people. But I've had a lot of positive interactions but I know people who have had negative interactions with the same people. The thing to keep in mind is that they're human and have problems and appointments just like you. While it's nice that they sign autographs they're not obligated to and they might have something to do that's more important. My experience with Lance was a pleasant one and someone else on this board may have a negative one. But maybe there was something going on in his life that overshadowed him signing something for you. I'm not suggesting people stop asking for autographs but to simply remember that these are people with hopes, fears, problems, and joys just like me and you.
"All our dreams can come true -- if we have the courage to pursue them." -- Walt Disney
We must have different Gods. My God said "do to others what you would have them do to you". Your God seems to have said "My Way or the Highway".