Honestly, I think it's a little rude to ask someone in the cast to hand out your gifts. Often dressing rooms are on different floors, and they have their own preparation which doesn't include being a delivery person.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.