Two of my suggestions have already been mentioned: "Anything You Can Do" (Annie Get Your Gun) and "Just You Wait" (My Fair Lady").
Other suggestions: "Show Me," "Without You," and "Why Can't a Woman" (all from "My Fair Lady," in which the two main characters spend most of the show furious with each other ... until they realize they're in love, which is why I think Higgins has to be reasonably young and sexy, but that's for another thread).
Still others: "How Do You Solve a Problem Like Maria" (The Sound of Music); "Aldonza" (her soliloquy, from "Man of La Mancha"); Anna's song, whose name I've forgotten, about her fury with the way the King treats his family and servants (The King and I); "He had it Coming" (Chicago).
I've noticed that many "dislike" songs are sung by female voices, so I hope that's what you're looking for.
You alone can make my song take flight.