There is a new song available for "The Fantasticks" called "Abductions." The authors took the perky underscoring from the "Rape Ballet" and put lyrics to it (sample)
Abductions, abductions
Theatrical abductions
Complete with maidens in distress
And fabulous productions!
There is also a slightly altered version of the original song (which can be heard on the cast album of the Japanese tour). Instead of saying, "You can get the rape emphatic/You can get the rape polite", the new lyric goes, "An abduction that's emphatic/An abduction that's polite" etc., etc.) It's up to each production which alternative to take.
As for "Carousel", I abhor the line in question and every production I've seen cuts it. I think it makes Julie out to be both dense and masochistic.
I ask in all honesty/What would life be?/Without a song and a dance, what are we?/So I say "Thank you for the music/For giving it to me."