<"Two men acquiring a biological child? Maybe he doesn't believe surrogacy is right, therefore doesn't have a option at this time. And if he does agree with surrogacy, it's insanely expensive and requires a lot of time and energy, therefore making it rough.">
BD Wong's wonderful book Following Foo is all about his and his then-partner's experience with the process. Highly recommended reading, both for theater buffs AND for people interested in surrogacy!
"Sweet summer evenings, hot wine and bread /
Sharing your supper, sharing your bed /
Simple joys have a simple voice:
It says why not go ahead?"