I'm in MY mid forties...and honestly: Have no desire to see any of the shows you listed except for your already chosen shows.
You couldn't PAY me to sit through Phantom Again.
What about South Pacific? A real beauty. Or something different or off b'way: Avenue Q, The 39 Steps, The Tempermentals.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.