This whole thread brings up an interesting point. The internet, message boards, chat rooms, etc. They all offer an anonimity that people really take advantage of. Because no one knows who you are, and you don't have to look the person in the eye, that serves as a justification to have conversation with absolutely no manners, and no consideration for others. I guarantee you, if we were all sitting in the same room having this conversation, we might express the same opinioins, but we would all do it far more politely. I think it is unfortunate that we have all gotten in the habit of expressing our ideas and opinions so bluntly on the internet, that we resort to arguments and insults, instead of interesting conversation that makes you think and expand your mind. We rip peformers and shows to shreads in such a mean way, we would be mortified if the people who are behind those projects overheard our words. We would never say those things to their face, or to their friends. It's really easy to hide behind the anonimity of a message board, and in turn, become really ugly in your demeanor. It's almost like people get a sick pleasure out of saying mean things. Folks, if you'd just attempt to be a little more polite, you might be surprised how much more productive these little sessions could be. As soon as negativity enters the conversation, both sides close themselves off, and we are reduced to argument. Maybe that's what some are looking for. But I, personally, like to get on these boards and discuss and learn about what we all love. Being right is a lot less important than you think it is. Keep your opinioins by all means, I wouldn't have it any other way. Please share them. It would be boring if we all agreed on everything. But try to at least be civil about the way you say things. Remember you are dealing with people on the other end of the board. We're not just typed words on a computer screen. Performers do read what is written about them, and folks who post do read what you say. Nothing in life, and I mean NOTHING, can be described so simply as "It's the best" or "It sucks". There's always more to it. Nothing is that cut and dry. Everything has a complicated mix of elements that can be seen from a million perspectives. Trying to see new perspectives is generally a good thing.
I'm not saying you should love Spamalot. If it's not your thing, that's great. Let's hear about it. But being entitled to your opinion doesn't justify being rude to people who might like the show. By insulting the show so bluntly, you indirectly insult the person who likes it. You are indirectly saying that they have really bad taste. Think about that. Just take the edge off a little, will ya?
Updated On: 9/2/05 at 07:25 PM
