So I talked to my husband- apparently he likes big, lavish spectacles. As he said, with the ticket prices we're paying, might as well go big or go home. So after reading more and discussing it, he's choosing The King and I (plus we both want to see Daniel Dae Kim).
i asked him why he liked Dear Evan Hansen when it's also a bit depressing and he said because it had humorous parts to its. He found nothing in Miss Saigon humorous. The best part of Les Mis to him is Master of the House, etc.
Thanks, everyone, for your replies! I'll be back in the area in June too and may add Something Rotten to the agenda!