"Didn't I read something here a few weeks ago about her having (unofficially) all but directed that A Little Night Music production? and she was 16 at the time?"
Scott Ellis directed it, so your statement is probably not far from the truth.
I remember reading one critic saying that Regina Resnick's performance of Madame Armfeldt was the first time he had been able to understand the lyrics to "Liaisons".
If anyone ever tells you that you put too much Parmesan cheese on your pasta, stop talking to them. You don't need that kind of negativity in your life.