I can understand and respect why she won't take individual pics. But I have to say that when I was in London five years ago (I went for the soul purpose of seeing her on stage in The Graduate) I went to the stage door afterwards and waited for about ten minutes or so. It was me--a nervous 16 year old--and my older sister, and about fifteen middle-aged men surrounding me (and they were all of course, ahead of me). When she finally came out, she took one look at the crowd, saw me standing there with my little program and came directly over to me! She chatted with me a bit, asked me if I enjoyed the show. Then, after she signed I timidly asked her if she would take a picture with me (I knew I had one shot at this, no pun intended) and she graciously obliged. I have never forgotten that. She could not have been nicer!
"You've gotta have a swine to show you where the truffles are."