Mark, don't listen to BorstalAs*. It's just her PMS kicking in.
Jordangirl answered all you need to know.
"He found something that he wanted, had always wanted and always would want— not to be admired, as he had feared; not to be loved, as he had made himself believe; but to be necessary to people, to be indispensable."
-F. Scott Fitzgerald's This Side of Paradise