This has totally happened to me for 2 B'way shows. Stuck in callbacks for ages. At the end of the day, all you can do is prepare as much as possible and do your thing. There are TOO many factors that are out of your control- your look, age, weight, height, etc. etc. etc.
But, getting seen by these people can always lead to something else.
Best of luck to your friend!
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