Me too! I remember reading, when the show wasn’t in NY, that Joanne played the triangle - and I thought they hit her character on the nail. "I don't really give a damn AND I'm drunk so I'm just gonna sit here and hit this triangle until you shut up."
In my opinion, that's Joanne's persona entirely.
But feigning a complete ignorance of the intent seems like a confusing and unnecessary way to express that. Thanks for being blunt. I needed that, my headache is getting worse.
You will thus be able to avoid the other problems that he's seen in with his friends' marriages I don't think that's exactly it. To have someone to lean on, to have someone who would take care of you and you to take care of, but not to be emotionally invested - that's what he wants. I think he's trying to tell himself that he doesn't want the problems of the typical marriage, but he is also completely unable to let someone in, and that's a higher priority than having to deal with these problems.
hard to believe that they wanted a better song than MARRY ME A LITTLE I don't think better is the correct word here. I think that Marry me a Little is a gorgeous song, and I don't think anyone would say otherwise. What they wanted was a song that said something else. What they wanted was a song where Bobby would let someone in.
I think it was either in the Meryl Secrest biography or the Kennedy Center Sondheim interview where they discussed Happily Ever After vs. Being Alive. It's understood that Being Alive makes no sense to have at the end (why would Bobby change his mind after having every reason marriage is horrible is being thrown in his face?) but to have Being Alive is emotionally satisfying, and therefore makes more sense. If the show ends on Happily Ever After, we start at the same place we began, therefore giving it all no meaning.
SondheimGeek: Is it slightly pathetic that you guys get to be Jedi bitches, and I'm Bitchy the Hutt?
LizzieCurry: No, you're more memorable