Well Aaron is mid 30s and in person he looks like he was rode hard and put away wet, so it worked fine.
I know that in the original London production, David Suchet would play the moment of comforting the upset Carol differently every night, sometimes genuinely comforting her, other times there were varying degrees of inappropriate contact. This cleverly muddied the waters even further AND meant that people who saw it on different nights and then discussed it (and it was MUCH discussed at the time) were arguing two completely different points without knowing it.
And Julia Stiles was one cold hearted bitch as Carol. The night I saw it, someone did indeed yell for Aaron to smash her with the chair. The two of them had as little to do with each other off stage as possible, because they were afraid if they hung out together and really got to know and like each other, performing the play as it should be performed 8 times a week would become impossible.
Nothing precious, plain to see, don't make a fuss over me. Not loud, not soft, but somewhere inbetween. Say sorry, just let it be the word you mean.