I have relative pitch, but I've played in orchestras and tuned my violin for so long that I can usually get an A 440 out of nowhere, and I can can find other notes from that. It just sticks eventually.
A close friend of mine has perfect pitch and considers it more of a curse than a blessing. When anything is out of tune at any performance, it's the only thing she notices, and she can't enjoy anything unless the intonation is perfect. Of course her intonation (she plays violin) is freakin' amazing and she sight-sings better than anyone, but she usually ends up irritated when listening to anyone else (we recently went to see a world-class soloist together and I said "well, she was good but I thought her tone was too small," and she immediately said, "she was out of tune.") My ear-training teacher picks out the people in our classes with perfect pitch and gives them harder exercises, so I'm glad I don't have it. :)
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