Nexttoelectric, You just said it yourself:
"My problem is with foster and his obsessive need to trash the show in every thread that could even remotely be related to N2N."
Your "problem" is "Foster." You're making this about a PERSON, not a theatrical WORK. This is YOUR issue. He is a human being with a different point of view. Let it go. Don't get so worked up about it. I happen to disagree with him about this show, too, but I still think he's a wonderful human being!
You can LOVE people and not have the same, identical thoughts they do! My god. How boring would this world be if we all thought exactly the same way? What kind of relationships would we have without conflict, contrast, debate and different perspectives? Sometimes you can learn the most from people who present things from a totally different point of view.
When my husband likes something I don't, I don't call my lawyer and file for divorce. Come on! Live and let live. And, truly, if you disapprove of someone's behavior, aren't you being a a tad hypocritical by doing the very thing you find offensive in the other person?
I am not trying to be mean or harsh or judgmental, but, rather, helpful.
We all lose our tempers now and then--and sometimes express ourselves less appropriately than we might, but the only thing in life we can really control is ourselves, so, for your own sake, please try to come to a place of peace with all of this. Wanna be A Foster is a good and kind person. I know this for a fact. Even if he is wrong about NEXT TO NORMAL
(KIDDING! KIDDING! Just shooting for a little levity here, WBAF!

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