You hear a lot about waiting tables....all you need to do is get someone else to pick up your shift, temp work. No one said it was EASY to do both. And many waiters just work nights, too.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.