USA Today gives it Three-and-a-half stars:
"Seldom has that heart expressed itself as ambitiously or compellingly as it does in This Is How It Goes (* * * ½ out of four), the most frank, fearless look at race relations from a white dramatist since Rebecca Gilman's Spinning into Butter."
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"The Public's George C. Wolfe, one of the most socially astute directors of his generation, briskly guides a cast that is as savvy as it is starry. Ben Stiller could play a nerdy prankster in his sleep, but he's equally impressive relaying the remorse and self-doubt underlying Man's bad behavior.
Amanda Peet is a strong foil as the long-suffering, if sometimes irritating, Belinda, while Jeffrey Wright's hilarious and withering Cody reconfirms his status as one of the most commanding and versatile actors of his generation.
All the players must contend with moments that seem contrived or pedantic. A heated monologue that Man delivers recalls a similar tirade offered by the lead male character in LaBute's The Shape of Things, pointing out obvious ills in an eloquent but belabored manner.
But This Is How It Goes is ultimately less judgmental than wistful — wistful in LaBute's fashion, which is also to say prickly, funny and sure to ruffle a few feathers."
http://www.usatoday.com/life/theater/reviews/2005-03-27-this-is-how-it-goes_x.htm
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