QUOTE (from humbugfoto:) If you're going to stagedoor, I'd think it'd be far more special to be able to have that actor's undivided attention and chat with them for ten or fifteen seconds. THAT would be a memory to take home. But a bit of ink on a piece of paper?
I just don't get it. END QUOTE
I've been going to the theatre for MANY years (I'm old) and never really thought to even stagedoor. Very few exceptions to that---I asked my aunt to get Tim Curry's autograph outside Amadeus because I was too shy to ask myself (he was very gracious) and my husband was able to get both Daniel Craig's and Hugh Jackman's autographs at the stage door of Steady Rain because I was there for a milestone birthday (I won't say which one!) and wanted that memento to mark that special occasion.
The BEST stagedoor experience I had was not an autograph at all, but a short convo I had with Tom Hewitt outside Jesus Christ Superstar (my sis was there to get autographs, I was standing there with her.) I said to Mr. Hewitt as he was signing my sister's Playbill "I'd like to see you play Sweeney Todd someday" and he looked at me and smiled and said "I was just thinking about learning those songs as a matter of fact!" and I encouraged him to please do it, and he asked my name and we shook hands in greeting. Better than an autograph!!
I think people are getting pretty pushy about EXPECTING actors to stage door. I don't think we are owed that at ALL. We are only owed the best performance they can give us, that counts more than anything else.
Updated On: 7/24/12 at 11:29 AM