I saw both as well and thought Parade was miles ahead of Hairspray as far as acting was concerned. Granted, I've always been drawn to more angsty material/characters, but I definitely did not feel as connected to
anyone in Hairspray as much as I felt for every single character in Parade.
Hairspray was good, but it was absolutely nowhere near Parade IMO
Does the sun really rise in the east?
Does the earth really spin around the sun?
What's it matter in the least?
What's real to me ain't real to everyone.