It really depends on what kind of shows you prefer. ITH is light, basic themes with basic song and dance woven withing the story. N2N tells a contemporary and frightening story, that will move you.
For me, I wouldn't think twice: I'd see N2N.
Your seats should be great for BE.
As far as things to do? So much, but I'd reccommend the Guggenheim (depending on the exhibit) and the MOMA.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
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