I was so relieved to discover this thread was NOT about the High School Musical star joining the cast.
jordangirl, Ariel wanted to be a human before she had even seen Eric; she was changing because it was something she had always wished for. The Part Of Your World scene comes before she has even seen Eric, let alone fallen in love with him:
What would I give if I could live out of these waters?
What would I pay to spend a day warm on the sand?
Bet'cha on land they understand
That they don't reprimand their daughters
Bright young women sick of swimmin'
Ready to stand It was already her wish to live on land. She wouldn't have been at the surface to see Eric in the first place had it not been for previous obsession with humans. It wasn't for the benefit of anyone but herself. That's actually a positive message.
She certainly didn't "give up everything for a man". She ran away out of defiance, not out of love for Eric. She didn't go to Ursula until after her father destroyed the grotto. Had it been solely about Eric, she would have gone to Ursula as soon as she fell in love with him instead. She didn't. She only left because of what her father did. Had you argued that it sends a bad message to children about running away from home, I could have agreed, but you must be watching the movie with blinders to suggest her actions were solely out of interest in Eric.
Like a firework unexploded
Wanting life but never
knowing how
Updated On: 1/15/08 at 05:25 AM