I agree with broadwaybaby87. Theater is great for all ages. I saw a lot worse things with and without my family by the time I was 13. Probably the two most profane shows from what I hear are Dracula and Avenue Q. But I think at thirteen I would tend to believe most kids are mature enough to handle a little profanity or nudity... I mean I was a master of profanity by 13 and I turned out OK... or at least I think that's the case.
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