I think the line between a person as a human being and an individual as an actor/performer is getting blurred here. I'll go out on a limb and cite an specific example from my own experience. Marc Kudish, in addition to being very rude to me personally (and I'm not talking about getting an autograph)has made some offensive remarks regarding sexuality. Translate: I don't like the guy from what I know of him as a person. However, I've seen Marc Kudish do some fine work in the theatre. Translate: I like his work. Rupert Everett may be the nastiest person in the world, for all I know (and I don't). But if he gives a good performance in Blithe Spirit, I will not allow my personal feelings about him influence my opinion of him as an actor in Blithe Spirit. Now, if he gives what I view as an unsatisfactory performance, then that might deter me from seeing him again. If what he has said or done publicly is so offensive to you that you cannot bear to see him in the theatre, that is certainly your prerogative. As I said, I have no preconceived notions about Everett one way or the other.
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