Well the story makes a lot more sense if Laurey is conflicted, attracted by yet also repulsed by Jud's rough-hewed nature.
For me, the major weakness of the 2002 revival was Susan Stroman's kitschy choreography, which was frequently wrong for the characters save for Justin Bohon's amazing "Kansas City" routine.
Today the seams in OKLAHOMA! show a bit, but when you read the scripts for most of the hits that preceded OKLAHOMA! (1900-1943) It was leaps and bounds ahead of all the others. And THAT is why it was such a huge hit at the time, and remains an important show.
Cast albums are NOT "soundtracks."
Live theatre does not use a "soundtrack." If it did, it wouldn't be live theatre!
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