That is very true. I have a couple of friends in LA who have done pretty well on TV. There are less than 20 restaurants/bars/clubs in LA where you are GUARANTEED to get photographed and my friends don't go to them. Most of the celebs you see in trash magazines shunning the paparazzi went to those places so that they could be photographed shunning the paparrazi.
These days, it's just a part of marketing.
If the audience could do better, they'd be up here on stage and I'd be out there watching them. - Ethel Merman