I personally don't think he really recognizes it, because he is more worried about his dying friend lying in his arms. He is upset about her dying, and I think he is so devastated. Maybe he does realize it, but it is kind of late for him. Again, Marius could think that Eponine's words of love meant purely friendship... though it is not the case, maybe Marius takes it as a loving friendship, because that is how he views Eponine.
And about rolling your eyes about being a bit late during "A Little Fall of Rain"... I didn't really blame Marius, I dont' really know why. I felt that he didn't really understand what was going on, but they were still just good pals. I think the worst part after Eponine's death, a bit later, he talks about Cosette all over again. That hurt the most for me... that his best girl friend just passed away, and he was still thinking about his love. But... he can't help who he falls in love with.
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