i was at a program once and the director asked if anyone could explain what a chorus member was. One little girl raised her hand and said "they're the people in the background." The back of every teacher in that room went up. The director retorted with "Not background, backbone!" - that really is the right way to look at it!!!
"Nothing is an accident, We are free to have it all, We are what we want to be, It's in ourselves to rise or fall!!" - "Fortune Favors the Brave" from Aida - the love that never died