Put me in the camp that wasn't impressed with THE LIVES OF OTHERS, either. It didn't deserve to win, but the foreign film category is so unpredictable.
I hope you like THE RETURN as much as I did. It was one of those instances where I went in knowing nothing and left mesmerized. If I recall correctly, the leading actor (fifteen at the time of filming, and one of the best juvenile performances I've ever seen) drowned shortly after the film was completed--ironic, since the film is set on a lake and water figures heavily into the story.
"You travel alone because other people are only there to remind you how much that hook hurts that we all bit down on. Wait for that one day we can bite free and get back out there in space where we belong, sail back over water, over skies, into space, the hook finally out of our mouths and we wander back out there in space spawning to other planets never to return hurrah to earth and we'll look back and can't even see these lives here anymore. Only the taste of blood to remind us we ever existed. The earth is small. We're gone. We're dead. We're safe."
-John Guare, Landscape of the Body