Boyfriend ? (GAY or straight)- Page 2

[touchmeinthemorning]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 12:11am

a good boyfriend loves you...and when they can't love you anymore that day, they fake it until they can love you again. and you do the same in return.

[FindingNamo]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 1:00am

"And body hair is a sin."

Oh, Corine. That kind of thinking belongs in teen magazines where male secondary sexual characteristics frighten the tweens because it reminds them of their fathers.

Obviously you're interested in boys, not men.

[erikaamato]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 1:29am

Namo: I was just about to post the same sort of response!

Corine: "body hair is a sin????" Really? I mean, OK, I'm not particularly into back hair, either, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with a hairy chest, legs, arms, etc. And in fact, I find too much "manscaping" to be a real turn-off. I'm into MEN, not prepubescent boys, thank you very much.

[chris d]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 3:16am

I love guys with long (head) hair

.....that's all.

[SueleenGay]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 6:37am

He must love to kiss and be passionate in many ways.

And body hair is a sin. (Especially back fur)
He must be into cuddling.
If he sells coins run for the hills!

Body hair is a sin? If they DON'T have body hair it is against the LAW!

Now we know why CoCo is and always will be MISS Cohen.

Updated On: 10/15/07 at 06:37 AM

[AnnaK<3LMIP]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 6:53am

Teens don't want body hair on guys because it reminds them of their FATHERS?


What the....ew!


Teens should date no one. We should make that an official law. We're not allowed to drive, and we're not allowed to date until the age 17.

[Mister Matt]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 10:24am

I'm into MEN, not prepubescent boys, thank you very much.

Thank you! My sentiments exactly.

[SonofMammaMiaSam]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 10:32am

But the monthly trip to have the upper lip waxed is okey-dokey no?

[Corine2]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 10:39am

I have dated men who have back fur like a dog. It is gross.
I prefer a hairless back. I don't mind hair on the arms or chest but if a man has fur like an ape it is gross.

My last boyfriend had a lot of back hair. It was not sexy.

[Stewpot]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 10:40am

[Phyllis Rogers Stone]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 10:43am

I've never understood what makes back hair any more offensive than hair elsewhere on the body. If you don't like any body hair that's one thing, but if you have no issue with chest hair, I don't get why back hair is any bigger of a deal.

[Corine2]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 10:47am

It is like cuddling with a gorilla. I am not talking a few hairs I am talking not being able to see any back skin here!!!

It was so thick you could swear he was wearing a fur.
His own mink was included. It was like petting an animal.
Imagine Right Said Rick's photo. That will paint the picture. Updated On: 10/15/07 at 10:47 AM

[SonofMammaMiaSam]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 10:49am

CoCo, sweetie, try dating Asian or Mexican.

[Phyllis Rogers Stone]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 10:52am

Stay away from Mediterranean and Semitic types.

[Unknown User]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 10:53am

So you gotta get your backed waxed if you wanna get with Corine? Not. Worth. It.

No offense Corine, but that HURTS!

[doodlenyc]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 10:54am

Corine, give him my number!

[Broadwayboobs]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 10:54am

Respect and trust. You can always shave/wax a back, chest,legs, etc....if don't have respect and trust in a relationship...you have NOTHING

[FindingNamo]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 10:55am

Erika, I KNEW you and I were sisters from opposite coasts!

[Phyllis Rogers Stone]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 10:57am

I'm very hairy and my man isn't. He says I keep him warm at night.

[don logan]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 11:08am

It is like cuddling with a gorilla. I am not talking a few hairs I am talking not being able to see any back skin here!!!

So then I guess it's ok for me to ask a gf to wax her privates, right? That would only be fair in your book.

[Phyllis Rogers Stone]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 11:09am

Is a bird in the hand really worth two in the bush, though?

[don logan]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 11:10am

Too...many...mixed...metaphors....head...exploding

[iHeartMyGeek]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 11:19am

I get the feeling that my qualifications for a "good boyfriend" would be a pretty far departure from what most people here would think. Except the respect thing, that is pretty much a must because you just can't have a relationship without respect. But I think the most important thing is really that you should be yourself. If your girflriend (or boyfriend, as the case may be) really cares about you you should be able to show them the worst of you and not be afraid of their reaction.

Edit: and as far as the Great Body Hair Debate, again, it has as much to do with being yourself as your personality. If it's there, it's there, what's the big deal?

Updated On: 10/15/07 at 11:19 AM

[SonofMammaMiaSam]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 11:23am

Much like a backyard pool, there is shallow and there is deep.
Updated On: 10/15/07 at 11:23 AM

[don logan]

Posted: 10/15/07 at 11:34am

Thank you Iheartmygeek. Couldn't have said it better myself.