What's mind-blowing to me about this whole non-issue is that the voices rooting for Matt Bomer to play this virile, sexual guy are coming from the MAINSTREAM. This was unthinkable when I was growing up.
And one of the voices that wants to pick it apart comes from the sexual fringes.
When I hear about women finding Bomer sexy long after he's out or hear straight women talk openly about how, for instance, they may find Peter Dinklage sexy, I can't help but wonder if the mainstream's sexual tastes and imaginations have moved far beyond the butch/buff/big dick ethos that gay culture seems to be stuck in.
"Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they've been given than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a fact. It's an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It's a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing.”
~ Muhammad Ali