Can a loving relationship start with sex?

#1

Can a loving relationship start with sex?

Posted: 12/6/04 at 2:32pm

In other words, can you meet someone, be intimate the same night and have any chance at all to enter a long-term relationship?

I really need to know.

Thanks.

#2

re: Can a loving relationship start with sex?

Posted: 12/6/04 at 2:33pm

yes,
<--- Exhibit A: My BF

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#3

re: Can a loving relationship start with sex?

Posted: 12/6/04 at 2:33pm

oh, yes. very loving. for about an hour.

#4

re: Can a loving relationship start with sex?

Posted: 12/6/04 at 2:34pm

Do you know his/her name?

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#5

re: Can a loving relationship start with sex?

Posted: 12/6/04 at 2:34pm

i'm not convinced he's your BF. This is the internet after all. Probably some pix you downloaded from another website.

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#6

re: Can a loving relationship start with sex?

Posted: 12/6/04 at 2:35pm

JLa, I told you. Leave the keys under the mat and be gone when I get home!

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#7

re: Can a loving relationship start with sex?

Posted: 12/6/04 at 2:36pm

It was a drunken night - but it wasnt really sex.....

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#8

re: Can a loving relationship start with sex?

Posted: 12/6/04 at 2:37pm

Yes.

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#9

re: Can a loving relationship start with sex?

Posted: 12/6/04 at 2:38pm

I guess mine really isn't long term - though a few months is a long time for college!

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"I've often said I should put sweets in my chair - they'd spend less time on my a** that way....." ~F.W.B.

#10

re: Can a loving relationship start with sex?

Posted: 12/6/04 at 2:38pm

Absolutely yes. A couple of my relationships started that way (including one that lasted almost two years).

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#11

re: Can a loving relationship start with sex?

Posted: 12/6/04 at 2:43pm

without a doubt. Yes.

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#12

re: Can a loving relationship start with sex?

Posted: 12/6/04 at 2:47pm

I met a guy outside of a bar, fifteen minutes later we were in bed. In April, we celebrate our 20th anniversary together.

#13

re: Can a loving relationship start with sex?

Posted: 12/6/04 at 2:48pm

Of course!

Those who tell you otherwise are lying red-staters!

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#14

re: Can a loving relationship start with sex?

Posted: 12/6/04 at 2:49pm

Yes--depends on the two people.

But, most of the time, your trick isn't going to be around for breakfast, much less an anniversary.

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#15

re: Can a loving relationship start with sex?

Posted: 12/6/04 at 2:51pm

But, really, jrb...in 98% of the cases, do you want them sticking around?

Hell...I had to RUN when some guy started calling me his 'special treasure.'

Creepy.

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#16

re: Can a loving relationship start with sex?

Posted: 12/6/04 at 2:51pm

Living proof it does! I have found most relationships start when you have no intention of having one -- just out for fun and good time and then all the pretense is down....you fool around, think "Hmmm...he was fun" and hook up again....8 years later you are still having fun and can't imagine you life without him.

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#17

re: Can a loving relationship start with sex?

Posted: 12/6/04 at 2:54pm

I say it depends on the prison you are in. Is it minimun security? High security? Did you meet in the shower or do you share a cell?

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PEACE.

#18

re: Can a loving relationship start with sex?

Posted: 12/6/04 at 2:59pm

Robbie, I hear you. It's times like those that I literally run out of the hotel bathroom...

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#19

I sincerely thank you all ...

Posted: 12/6/04 at 3:01pm

Your responses have been most helpful to me. I think it depends on all of the above - the type of person each person is, chemistry, intentions going into the situation, etc.

Again, thanks for your help.

#20

I sincerely thank you all ...

Posted: 12/6/04 at 3:06pm

jrb,

First, however, I like to do a little reenactment of the Sissy Spacek-washing-the-blood-off-herself-in-the-tub scene from CARRIE before I actually run.

I find it makes them very uncomfortable and I get in a nice hot bath!

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#21

I sincerely thank you all ...

Posted: 12/6/04 at 3:09pm

I meant the one in the lobby...

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#22

I sincerely thank you all ...

Posted: 12/6/04 at 3:11pm

The bathroom with the attendant?

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#23

I sincerely thank you all ...

Posted: 12/6/04 at 3:13pm

You have to stay out of the Paramount, jrb.

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#24

I sincerely thank you all ...

Posted: 12/6/04 at 3:27pm

Oh yes. Most indubitably!

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#25

I sincerely thank you all ...

Posted: 12/6/04 at 3:34pm

Yes. I think so.
Not that I've ever had sex on the first date.
But it's possible.