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Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
#50Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 3:42pm
I think she's an irrational low-life...probably stupid, probably poor...who thinks lording it all over someone who can't/defend themselves makes her the big powerful person in the room. I don't think it's likely that she'll have the self-awareness to see the backlash for what it is. She'll believe to the end that she is right and misunderstood.
Of course it's possible that she's mentally ill. But I see nothing here that specifically points to that. I've seen lots of non-mentally ill people act like this and worse.
#51Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 3:44pm
If "delusional, entitled bitch" is an illness, we don't have enough meds or therapists to deal with it. And millions of Americans are suffering from it. Like maybe half the country.
This is a mindset brought on by trendy, acquired behavior and hideous parents who never bothered to raise their children and should never have had kids in the first place.
EDIT: The parents don't have time for kids. But when they do spend some time with them, every little daughter is a royal princess and every little son is a war hero.
They should all be quarantined for causing the problem.
But it's not an "illness."
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#52Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 3:44pm
People behave in all kinds of ways. Just because they act weird doesn't mean they're mentally ill.
Tests are given to patients to determine that, by qualified physicians. When that is proven about this woman, I'll believe it.
I should add that I've behaved in some bizarre ways when even I myself walked away thinking, wow, they must think I'm nuts.
PMS has also been known to make woman act KEE-RAZEE!
#53Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 3:48pm
Actually, I am a licensed clinician. She has pressured speech, is somewhat incoherent, paranoid and grandiose. She very well could have a thought disorder.
She's also young enough to be having her first psychotic break, most likely just like Amanda Bynes, which can manifest with aggression and anger.
I loved all the people all over the web calling her hideous names for calling someone hideous names.
Makes perfect sense.
#54Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 3:53pm
"Actually, I am a licensed clinician."
me too
#55Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 3:55pmJane-then you should know she has some observable traits of a thought disorder and a first psychotic break.
#56Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 3:57pm
i agree, Jane.
I just don't like it when the very first assessment of someone you don't know is "she's mentally ill." Like you say, many tests determine it. Lots of information needs to be gathered. Mental illness is a serious condition, not to be taken lightly or diagnosed after any misstep in behavior.
People really start to sound like "the boy who cried wolf."
I worry about the day when two people get into an argument and start yelling, and suddenly they are sent to therapy and told they have anger management issues.
Really? That's a serious mental problem, but "getting angry," even irrationally so, doesn't mean there is an illness. Anger is a completely justifiable emotion without the need of pills or weeks of therapy to "cure" them of it.
It's like those parents who don't have time to raise or discipline their children, so they give the drugs to sedate them. It's unconscionable.
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#57Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 4:00pm
besty-read my post. Im not pulling this out of my butt.
I find it more obscene when people start saying, "she's poor, she's trash, she's ugly, she's white trash"
How is that helpful.
If someone is acting out, there is often a mental health component.
#58Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 4:04pm
I read your posts, Betty.
I think there is a serious social behavior issue here.
Not a mental illness. That would take months or even years to assess and confirm, not a one-time encounter.
I just don't agree with jumping that far ahead so fast.
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#59Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 4:08pm
But you agree with jumping on the let's burn her at the stake mentality?
It's funny how compassion or curiosity can't be offered, but tearing her to shreds is acceptable.
#60Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 4:10pmHer words and actions were atrocious. She should be held accountable for them before we turn her into a victim.
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#61Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 4:13pm
"Jane-then you should know she has some observable traits of a thought disorder and a first psychotic break."
I don't diagnose by watching Youtube.
#62Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 4:15pm^ Thank you.
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#63Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 4:18pm
"I don't diagnose by watching Youtube."
No, you just judge and jury and deem her a bimbo.
Cool. Carry on.
#64Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 4:23pm
Hey, maybe she is mentally ill. We don't know that. But to see someone behaving badly on Youtube and immediately decide she's mentally ill is what I have a problem with.
As you guys may know, mental illness holds a serious place in my family because of my sister.
Anyway, the brain is something we don't know enough about. And people can decide to act mental, or conversely, some mental patients can fool you. My sister had a genius IQ and sometimes you could be having a very deep conversation with her and have no idea she had problems.
There are too many variables to decide from watching a video. Who knows if this woman was on some medication that she shouldn't have been taking?
Who knows anything? We may never find out.
#65Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 4:24pm
"No, you just judge and jury and deem her a bimbo. "
Yes, I called her that because it was less severe than labeling her a mental case.
#66Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 4:26pm
Jane, I know you're a good egg. I'm sorry if I was rude to you.
I think my frustration lies in our viral video society. After watching a video like that we know so little. Yes, mental illness may be a stretch, but so is calling her names. Personality is so complex, and so are troubled people.
#67Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 4:27pmShe's not mentally ill. She's just from Florida.
#68Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 4:29pm
Betty boy, I don't think you were rude to me at all. I do a pretty good job of that sometime.
I like you too, Bettyboy. I just love having debates! No harm done at all.
#69Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 4:45pm
I don't think it's wrong to see this and think "crazy". When I see someone behave like this I think something must be wrong with her because healthy, balanced, people don't behave this way. I understand why we would think insane. That behavior is insane. It's weird. Like Phyllis said. It doesn't make sense.
She may not be crazy. But she is definitely delusional. And rude. And foul mouthed. And racist. No debate there.
#70Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 4:46pm
Betty, she brought all of this on herself, including and especially the viral video. The viral responses are justified. She is getting her comeuppance now, and I don't have a problem with it.
If it turns out she has a mental illness, I hope she gets the treatment she needs, and I hope she becomes a better person for it. I do mean that.
But would I retroactively regret how this played out in the media? Would I regret my own words?
No. Everyone, and I do mean everyone, should be held accountable for their actions.
My hope is that SHE would do the apologizing at some point. That would be part of the healing process and the road to mutual understanding, regardless of this being an illness or a behavior problem.
Mental illness should never be a free pass from responsibility.
The difference is that it would excuse her from malice. From the perceived intent. But it would not excuse her actions.
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#71Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 4:55pm
All I see in that video is an immature bitch. Just like the stupid girls who film themselves bullying other girls. Or the girls Facebooking nasty horrific comments with glee. Writing off bad behavior as mental illness is akin to giving someone a Handicapped placard for their car because they sprained their ankle kicking a defenseless kid in the stomach for being a geek.
Amanda Bynes had better be mentally ill. It would be mortifying to find out she's just really that stupid (and probably is).
#72Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 5:01pmAlso, let's remember that people who go viral sometimes end up FAMOUS, LOL! Maybe she's trying for that at any cost.
#74Crazy lady goes off on Dunkin Donuts
Posted: 6/12/13 at 9:26pm
Very glad to hear this. They should be proud of him. He's a model employee and a "class act" all the way. I wish him great success in his pursuit to be a doctor.
He's got the calm bedside manner down already.
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