"i gave up on AOL a long time ago, i now do outlook"
I'm looking around for other options. Today, in a two hour period, I was bounced out of AOL four times. When it happens, it toally shuts down my computer. When I sign back on, it says "Updating AOL database" which tells me they are screwing around with it.
If anyone ever tells you that you put too much Parmesan cheese on your pasta, stop talking to them. You don't need that kind of negativity in your life.