#26
Posted: 3/21/05 at 12:31am
I lived here a year ago, and hated it...I lived in Marina Del Rey..ugh. so unfriendly, stressed-out, crazy drivers, nasty old men in very chi-chi cars...
but then I moved back after a year in NYC. I realized NYc wasn't "home" for me anymore...I hadn't lived there since before 9/11 it's changed. in a good way, but it's changed. there are no 'bad areas" anymore. there are less and less people who understand what it used to be like to live in NY and why being a New Yorker was some strange kind of achievement...anyway I found myself longing for L.A.
and I came back, and got a job before I even moved into my apartment. this time, I'm loving it here...the "fake" stuff...well, I actually just see that as there being just more of a culture of friendliness over here. people want to be polite. like, the wickedest thing you can do to someone is decide, o.k. I'm going to be SO RUDE to this person!! I am NOT going to say "thank you" and that's a huge big deal for me. man, it takes a LOT of effort for me to not say thank you. that's me being utterly fierce. heh. you do realize a lot of this post is completely tongue-in-cheek, don't you...I'm not really that much of a moron...
but seriously...there's a lot to LOVE about L.A. if you take the time to do it. god I love the drive up on the 5 coming to Glendale from ORange County...I love seeing those mountains rising up, and all the trees--everytime I see it I just...remember to breathe again.
and I love that no one is in a hurry if I want to count out the change that's due for my coffee or whatever. I never had time to get rid of my change in NY for fear of getting screamed at.
and I love that I'm learning Spanish just by walking around and keeping my ears open.
hm. what else do I love? good tacos. good sushi. and once in awhile a good, good person who lets me in front of them in the line at the grocery store because I have less stuff. wow...it makes my week.
I love you LA !! never thought I'd say that...
but then I moved back after a year in NYC. I realized NYc wasn't "home" for me anymore...I hadn't lived there since before 9/11 it's changed. in a good way, but it's changed. there are no 'bad areas" anymore. there are less and less people who understand what it used to be like to live in NY and why being a New Yorker was some strange kind of achievement...anyway I found myself longing for L.A.
and I came back, and got a job before I even moved into my apartment. this time, I'm loving it here...the "fake" stuff...well, I actually just see that as there being just more of a culture of friendliness over here. people want to be polite. like, the wickedest thing you can do to someone is decide, o.k. I'm going to be SO RUDE to this person!! I am NOT going to say "thank you" and that's a huge big deal for me. man, it takes a LOT of effort for me to not say thank you. that's me being utterly fierce. heh. you do realize a lot of this post is completely tongue-in-cheek, don't you...I'm not really that much of a moron...
but seriously...there's a lot to LOVE about L.A. if you take the time to do it. god I love the drive up on the 5 coming to Glendale from ORange County...I love seeing those mountains rising up, and all the trees--everytime I see it I just...remember to breathe again.
and I love that no one is in a hurry if I want to count out the change that's due for my coffee or whatever. I never had time to get rid of my change in NY for fear of getting screamed at.
and I love that I'm learning Spanish just by walking around and keeping my ears open.
hm. what else do I love? good tacos. good sushi. and once in awhile a good, good person who lets me in front of them in the line at the grocery store because I have less stuff. wow...it makes my week.
I love you LA !! never thought I'd say that...