Thank you Miss Manners (that was just the answer I was hoping for!)
BTW.... this post marks #10,000 for the mominator!
(Cue the trumpet fanfare!)
"All I ask of you is one thing: please don't be cynical. I hate cynicism -- it's my least favorite quality and it doesn't lead anywhere. Nobody in life gets exactly what they thought they were going to get. But if you work really hard and you're kind, amazing things will happen."
Conan O'Brien