Aww, Elphie. It's not like that. Chances are you'll be wearing a name tag so you can skip the I'm me part. :-P
Really, most people are in the same boat as you. I felt the exact same way before my orientation. My mom skipped it and went shopping, so at our first "event" almost everyone was with parents, so it's not like I could approach if I wanted to. So I very timidly walked around, saying nothing. There was another girl doing the same. We passed each other twice, and though we both were shy, the third time, we both were kinda like okay we might as well talk at this point. And talk about luck on my part. I was wearing my Grease shirt so she said after a few sentences, she said she loves my shirt. Do I like musicals because she loves them. Haha. That was it, suddenly we both were extremely outgoing talking all about theatre. We're still friends.
Similar thing happened with the one other girl from orientation that I'm still friends with. At one event, I saw one of the girls who was in the room I was in, and talked to her and these other girls, and one of them turned out to be obsessed with theatre, so once again, I was totally outgoing.
Even if you don't have that, you know, they dorkily try to break the ice for you. At dinner they assigned us to "groups" where like an orientation student dude would sit with us and try to get us talking if we weren't already. You have the people in your room who you're in the room with, so you might as well talk. And then you find people who are in all your "events" and kind of stick with them. Most people I talked to I never saw again, but I got through it.
And I was terrified as well. You know how short I am, and I kept telling my mom that....everyone looks soo talllll
It's normal to be nervous, but you'll be fine
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