This past Monday night, my 84 year old dad passed away. He had congestive heart failure, a pace maker, a diffibulator, and in the end, it was discovered he had lymphoma. However, he was exremely independent and drove himself to the synagogue every Friday night. He only had his keys taken away about 2 weeks before his death. He was born in Brooklyn and raised in the Bronx. He lied about his age to join the military so high school was the highest education he completed. He was an avid learner though. Yiddish was his first language but he also spoke many other languages. He had travelled to all 7 continents and even placed a Star of David on the South Pole. He loved classical music and opera- especially Maria Callas and did the NY Times crossword puzzle in ink! With all that- he also loved Hee Haw, Alf, the Beverly Hillibillies, All in the Family, and Three's Company. He was quite a character! Rest in peace dad! (and thanks to the board for indulging me)
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What a wonderful story. If I had a daughter remember me that way I'd say,'Damn! I must have done something right in life!!" I think he'd be prouder than proud to hear such beautiful praise from his child. Sorry to hear about your loss. I dread the day when my parents go.Stay strong!
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-Robert Evans-
Thanks everyone! Namo- I am shocked that you know that Hew Haw salute- lol! My dad was a very funny and simple man. He loved going to Big Lots and he bought almost everything that was "As Seen on TV". (ie. I have a Magic Bullet, a George Foreman Grill...) I'm so glad he knew my son was at NYU before he died. My son came home Wednesday night, attended the funeral, and left Thursday afternoon. Unfortunately, the fight between my sisters is about to begin- but that's another very long story! So thanks again to all my cyber friends! You all have such a way with words and that's why I love this board so much!
I'm so sorry for your loss. He's in a better place now and is resting in peace. The best thing for you to do is to stay out of your sisters' drama knowing that your father would not have wanted any fighting.
A loving tribute by a wonderful daughter. The reason that there is grief is that there is so much love. There could be less grief but that would have meant less love and I never met anyone who wanted less love. May the L*rd bless you and your children and may your year be full of naches from each other.
He is lucky to have had a daughter like you. My heart felt condolences go out to you and your family. As far as "the fight between you and your sisters" goes, just stay the child that is not going to argue over anything. Besides, more importantly, he will always be with you with or without a few of his possessions he left behind.
"He who has gone, so we but cherish his memory, abides with us, more potent, nay, more present than the living man."
I find inspiration in how he visited all seven continents. That is one of my lifetime goals. I've got 4 down.
"If this is going to be a Christian nation that doesn't help the poor, either we have to pretend that Jesus was just as selfish as we are, or we've got to acknowledge that He commanded us to love the poor and serve the needy without condition and then admit that we just don't want to do it." -Stephen Colbert