Has Anyone Ever...

#1

Has Anyone Ever...

Posted: 8/8/04 at 2:43am

Gotten home after a great night out and checked your messages only to find one from someone who broke your heart 6 years ago(September 20th, 1998 to be exact) and completely destroyed you and it took almost 4 years to get over them, and now they want you to call them?

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"Noah, someday we'll talk again. But there's things we'll never say. That sorrow deep inside you. It inside me, too. And it never go away. You be okay. You'll learn how to lose things..."

#2

re: Has Anyone Ever...

Posted: 8/8/04 at 3:46am

This is not exactly the same thing, but this guy has refused to answer my calls or PMs since the last time I saw him (April 13th), and I had given up on him, and he just randomly called me at 1:30am and asked me to go out to a party with him (which I couldn't... past curfew), and then he called again at 3:30am asking me to go to breakfast with him.

{I know, mine is like the "junior" version of your story, but I thought I'd share anyway since it appears that both happened in the same night.}

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#3

re: Has Anyone Ever...

Posted: 8/8/04 at 3:49am

Matt, you should try Jelqing your boq, it might just make you a happier person all together... I don't know if it works, but it sure sounds funny as all heck...

Updated On: 8/8/04 at 03:49 AM

#4

re: Has Anyone Ever...

Posted: 8/8/04 at 7:13am

As soon as I read "Has Anyone Ever...?", I answered yes, and moved onto the next thread.

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#5

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Posted: 8/8/04 at 9:14am

So did I Zola. The answer to that question is always yes.

Matt pumpkin, call him back. Hopefully he wants you and you will have the chance to speak to him, be very sweet and nice have graet conversation and explain that you learn from past mistakes an never repeat them. Then tell him how nice it was to hear from him and say goodbye.

#6

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Posted: 8/8/04 at 9:46am

Good advice, Nina.

I'm off the phone, Matt, so call me back whenever you're ready.

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Updated On: 8/8/04 at 09:46 AM

#7

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Posted: 8/8/04 at 10:03am

DON'T CALL!!!!

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#8

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Posted: 8/8/04 at 10:23am

I'm still trying to decide. I slept maybe about 90 minutes last night, also. This was someone I met when I was 8 and was a part of my life until we were adults.

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"Noah, someday we'll talk again. But there's things we'll never say. That sorrow deep inside you. It inside me, too. And it never go away. You be okay. You'll learn how to lose things..."

#9

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Posted: 8/8/04 at 10:34am

hey Matt,
I have a friend like that. We were so close for so many years and he's sort of extricated himself from his entire circle of friends...and just recently, he began making efforts to come back. It's hard because you have to move on from these things (especially if the relationship was more than friendship)...but perhaps you can gain a better measure of closure by speaking to him. So good luck with whatever you decide to do.

#10

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Posted: 8/8/04 at 3:34pm

Okay, I made the phone call and just spent 45 minutes talking. I closed my eyes and it was 1998 again. I can't remember the last time I was as happy as I just was on the phone.

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"Noah, someday we'll talk again. But there's things we'll never say. That sorrow deep inside you. It inside me, too. And it never go away. You be okay. You'll learn how to lose things..."

#11

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Posted: 8/8/04 at 4:01pm

Congrats!

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#12

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Posted: 8/8/04 at 4:04pm

Aww, yay Matt. :)

#13

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Posted: 8/8/04 at 4:24pm

Did you touch yourself? C'mon, just a little?

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#14

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Posted: 8/8/04 at 4:32pm

Not even a little.

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"Noah, someday we'll talk again. But there's things we'll never say. That sorrow deep inside you. It inside me, too. And it never go away. You be okay. You'll learn how to lose things..."

#15

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Posted: 8/8/04 at 4:37pm

nope, can't say i have.

that would suck though, right?

#16

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Posted: 8/9/04 at 11:49am

i have had an exboyfriend do that... GRRRRRR

#17

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Posted: 8/9/04 at 1:26pm

awww matt G. Hope everything works out ok!

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#18

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Posted: 8/9/04 at 1:29pm

Yeah for Matt! Luv ya'

#19

re: Has Anyone Ever...

Posted: 8/9/04 at 1:46pm

I had one VERY recently....text msg me after not hearing from him for 6 months...askin if I hated him.....I waited 2 hours to txt back...No....then he called me to ask my forgiveness....ah sweet revenge!

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#20

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Posted: 8/9/04 at 5:43pm

Good for you Matt...
similar thing happened to me -- someone from college got my email from an alumni directory and wanted to know what was up and cold we "patch things up" (after he drained my bank account for "nose candy")....

It took me a while to answer, but I did and feel pretty good about it -- even when things are "bad", there are always good times and memories...

Hope it works out however you want it to...

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#21

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Posted: 8/9/04 at 5:45pm

The more you ruv someone
The more you want to kill him...

Glad you had a good conversation. People do change, give him a chance, just look out for yourself.

#22

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Posted: 8/9/04 at 10:06pm

Hey Matt

Keep the faith. You're witty, intelligent and tons of fun. Something good is on the horizon, new or old...

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#23

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Posted: 8/10/04 at 12:50am

Keep us updated!

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"[My son]'s really into my music, but one day we were listening to Billy [Joel] in the car and he said, 'Daddy, I think Billy's songs are a little better than yours." (Michael Cavanaugh)

#24

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Posted: 8/10/04 at 12:51am

We spent 3 hours on the phone today.

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"Noah, someday we'll talk again. But there's things we'll never say. That sorrow deep inside you. It inside me, too. And it never go away. You be okay. You'll learn how to lose things..."

Updated On: 8/10/04 at 12:51 AM

#25

re: Has Anyone Ever...

Posted: 8/10/04 at 1:00am

I'm happy for you!
But do be careful.


(btw, not that you care, but the guy from my story never called back after the 3:30 breakfast call.)

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