Ha - you probably should be - it'll keep you on your toes!
The whole spectrum of education is so broad. My husband caught them right at the beginning of the journey - and unfortunately had to deal with the reality of parents who weren't along for the ride.
You seem focussed on a time when they should be developing their own path - but that can be SO frustrating when you see that they're NOT grabbing their own brass ring.
I had some experience as a teacher, and I simply couldn't continue - I just couldn't process the disconnect between what I knew, and what they were supposed to learn - for whatever reason.
My respect is endless, but so is my sympathy