I may have put those exact words in your mouth, jrb, but your overzealous sermonising about how great every career move is that she has ever made has telegraphed your sentiment loud and clear.
I really can't be bothered to go on with this.
Nothing precious, plain to see, don't make a fuss over me. Not loud, not soft, but somewhere inbetween. Say sorry, just let it be the word you mean.