Paul Rudd did indeed kiss his lover in THE OBJECT OF MY AFFECTION. It's been so long since I've seen it, but I remember that particular scene. I think he and his lover (who, by the way, is the kept man of an elderly gentlemen played tragically by Nigel Hawthorne) kiss outside on the sidewalk as Nigel's character watches. It nearly broke my heart. Anyway, I saw it the day it came out and when they kissed, a lot of the teenage boys (and some girls) acted disgusted.
Salve, Regina, Mater misericordiae
Vita, dulcedo, et spes nostra
Salve, Salve Regina
Ad te clamamus exsules filii Eva
Ad te suspiramus, gementes et flentes
O clemens O pia