B86: you chose another button-pusher.
I love this movie, and even own the DVD. And I am not otherwise an Adam Sandler fan. The film has a strange almost poetic, surreal feel (the piano!), while remaining grounded in prosaic, mundane (and at times, ugly) realities of contemporary life. The romance is written with a kind of stark economy -- you either buy into it, early on, or you are left in the dark. Sandler is borderline creepy throughout -- no fake "redemptive" moment -- which makes him endearing, oddly enough. (Though when he says he has "a love"in his life, it's very moving and satisfying--if you've gone on this journey willingly.) Like MAGNOLIA, the movie burrows deep inside marginalized people and asks you to invest, and care. I do, every time I watch it.
"I'm a comedian, but in my spare time, things bother me." Garry Shandling