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#26

rent...it majorly sucked!

Posted: 3/6/06 at 7:58pm

sometimes i thing some people think their families dont accept them or tell people they're not accepted beacuse that's what they want to happen.
you poor thing... you're parents love you. be happy about it.
and stop assuming you're the only person who has *ever* had to come out to their parents and not heard exactly what you wanted to hear.

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Updated On: 3/6/06 at 07:58 PM

#27

rent...it majorly sucked!

Posted: 3/6/06 at 8:58pm

my parents walked out of RENT.......either the whole AIDS thing hit too close to home, or it was too loud for them.......

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#28

rent...it majorly sucked!

Posted: 3/6/06 at 9:41pm

Come on, people.

Some days are just bad and people need to vent. Don't you have those days?

I don't think chasef2008 posts these kinds of things on a regular basis.
Give a little sympathy- something you would want when you are going through a rough time whether it's not being accepted or anything else.

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#29

rent...it majorly sucked!

Posted: 3/6/06 at 10:36pm

I'll admit that I didn't read all of his post because the prose offended me but AbbaRabbit, I never saw him implying that he is the only person to ever go through this sort of thing. I imagine that the reason he came on here and posted this was because he figured there were people with similiar experiences who would give him some sympathy. Whether or not you really care to hear it, it's kind of lame of you to come around making fun of him (Papa too). Just don't say anything.

Your parents may love you but I think it would kind of suck to be fifteen/sixteen years old and suddenly realize that your parents think there's something significantly wrong with you. It's a novel feeling if you've previously had a good relationship with your parents. Chasef, welcome to adolescence. Enjoy it, work it, get over it.

yr ronin,
joey

#30

rent...it majorly sucked!

Posted: 3/6/06 at 11:15pm

I think one important thing you need to keep in mind is that your parents said "No matter what life you choose to live, we will still love you." I think maybe (and obviously I don't know, but it sounds like) they understand that being gay isn't a choice... choosing to act on those impulses is the choice. But I mean, choosing to act on heterosexual impulses is a choice as well.

It sounds to me like your parents are scared for you. Terribly afraid. They ARE being stereotypical, and close minded. But they DO love you. If they didn't love you, they wouldn't take the time to watch the movie with you, and talk to you afterwards. They would just forget about you.

Parents are human beings. They have faults. Your parents may have been raised in a society where being gay was considered to be wrong. Being a teen is definitely hard, and to have to overcome an obstacle of showing your parents that one of their core beliefs is wrong, is terribly hard. But I do think they love you. And that is the most important thing.

Just remember that you will overcome this. And when you go to a college, definitely look into a more liberal school where you will find lots of support. Remember to not lose your temper over this subject... React calmly, even if your parents are acting immature, because if you act childish, it will only push them in the wrong direction. Think of yourself as teaching *them* something. And eventually, they will understand.

"You know, a little orphan girl once told me that the sun would come out tomorrow. Her adopted father was a powerful billionaire, so I supressed the urge to laugh in her face. But now, by gum, I think she might have been on to something!" --Reefer Madness

#31

rent...it majorly sucked!

Posted: 3/6/06 at 11:21pm

"well i guess i should not have posted this since apparently straight ppl are trying to act like they know what it's like...and they don't."

that's kinda implying that no one who posted to him has ever been though anything like what he's going though.

your parents watched a movie with you that you thought they'd be against, told you they loved you no matter what, expressed concern, and even though they were mis-informed somewhere along the line about all gay people getting aids or something, the concern shuld tell you they love you and care about you, and you said in another thread that they liked the movie as well... what's so horrible about that?

Updated On: 3/6/06 at 11:21 PM

#32

rent...it majorly sucked!

Posted: 3/6/06 at 11:31pm

Some people in this thread are quite inconsiderate today.

So Abba are you the guy or the little girl in your avatar...?

#33

rent...it majorly sucked!

Posted: 3/6/06 at 11:41pm

excuse me i'm just trying to understand how someone can complain about something like this.
love and understanding is obviously lost on this kid.

#34

rent...it majorly sucked!

Posted: 3/6/06 at 11:55pm

Well you are not him, you have no idea what his life is like.

#35

rent...it majorly sucked!

Posted: 3/6/06 at 11:58pm

and you have no idea what anyone else's is like.

#36

rent...it majorly sucked!

Posted: 3/7/06 at 12:00am

and you and you and you and you and you....I'm dizzy again

rent...it majorly sucked!

Updated On: 3/7/06 at 12:00 AM

#37

rent...it majorly sucked!

Posted: 3/7/06 at 12:02am

sit chita... pull up a chair and get comfy... and get off that damn ride!

#38

rent...it majorly sucked!

Posted: 3/7/06 at 12:05am

Ok.

#39

rent...it majorly sucked!

Posted: 3/7/06 at 11:47am

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