The Official (And Original) Random Thread--It's BACK, biotches!!- Page 10

[Type_A_Tiff]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 10:28pm

Alright, just cuz it's you and I want to hear your new problems. What happened with your almost-friend?

[Ebonic_Singer]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 10:34pm

woot! Done with work!!

[insomniak]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 10:36pm

Um.

Wow. I wouldn't know where to start. It's like... ok, let me try to make it simple. I did something wrong and I knew it. I actually wrote her a note about doing this, but I phrased it in general terms, so it would sound like it was about anyone. I asked if it was wrong to do and she said no. So basically, she gave me the ok to do this but she didn't know it at the time. Yesterday, she finally figured out the truth, just like I knew she would. She was the target the entire time. And it got ugly.

That's the bare bones of it. And I know what I did was despicable, but I don't do cruel things like that without cause. She won't hear a word of it, though. The funniest thing is, she wouldn't have realized what I was doing if I hadn't subtley pointed it out to her. Updated On: 10/24/04 at 10:36 PM

[Ebonic_Singer]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 10:48pm

I hate those "nothing would have happened if it werent for me" situations. I feel for you.

[insomniak]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 10:51pm

It's more complicated than that. I hurt her and I don't feel terribly guilty because of what she's put me through. But I can't just stop talking to her. I don't know what to do.

[Type_A_Tiff]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:00pm

What has she put you through?? I'll give her beats, Ak!

[Ebonic_Singer]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:01pm

Well if you need help we're always here.

[insomniak]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:07pm

I do need help. I can't afford to let her do this, I need a place to sit at lunch and it would be nice if people didn't gossip.

[Ebonic_Singer]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:07pm

Well, if she doesn't want to hear any of it, wait until she calms down, then try. If not, another letter couldn't hurt. If a letter got you into the mess, maybe it could help resolve the problem?

[Type_A_Tiff]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:08pm

again, what is she doing to you? then i can tell you a good-hearted/malicious subsequent form of action.

[insomniak]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:10pm

Sorry, I didn't explain this properly. None of that has anything to do with the issue.

And I can't tell you.

[Ebonic_Singer]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:10pm

Aw shucks. Hmmmm I'm trying........?

[Delphine]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:11pm

Insomniak, I'm sorry. I hate these types of situations. Talk to me some more. Please tell me.

[insomniak]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:12pm

It's like... it's not a fight. It's deeper than that and there's no smoothing it over.

[Ebonic_Singer]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:13pm

Then just let it be? Let her stew it over.

[Type_A_Tiff]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:14pm

why can't you tell us what she did to you? revenge for revenge is sweet, dear. and it's all anonymous here!

(I feel like going, "There, there. There, there." like The Man. But I won't. Oh. I just did.)

[OneBlazeOfGlory]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:14pm

Why can't you tell anyone? I don't think any of us even live in the same state as you, let alone know who this person is. Maybe it would make you feel better if you really got it off your chest. PM someone or talk to someone even if it isn't us okay?

[Delphine]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:14pm

Insomniak, how good of friends were you in the first place?

[Type_A_Tiff]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:15pm

if the chat is abandoned, we can head on in there and discuss, that way there's no lasting proof.

[Delphine]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:16pm

There's one person in there. Do we know who it is?

[insomniak]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:16pm

It doesn't matter that it's anonymous here, telling you guys would have the same effect as telling her. Well, not quite, but it would happen, just on a lesser scale.

And this won't stew over. And people will talk. I'm in for a rough monday.

[Ebonic_Singer]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:16pm

Well darf, if ya post to go on the chat like that, everyone's gonna go in cause you draw so much attention!

[Delphine]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:19pm

Nia, why would it hurt us if you told us? Would we really think that badly of you because of it? I doubt it. You said there was a reason you did it, whatever it is. I think we'd be able to understand that.

[insomniak]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:20pm

I'm not afraid of posting it. I just can't give details. Going into the chat won't change what I say. I really, really can't. Please take this seriously.

[Ebonic_Singer]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:20pm

I think im getting a picture of what you did.

And why is she called Nia? What am I then?