The Official (And Original) Random Thread--It's BACK, biotches!!- Page 12

[Delphine]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:57pm

Would I trust you? Yes, I certainly would. My very best friend in the entire world sounds exactly like you. EXACTLY. Sometimes she scares me. Sometimes she hurts my feelings. Sometimes she even makes me cry. But I recognize the problems she has and I see the person that she is, insecurities aside. I have a stronger relationship with her than with any other friend I've ever had. She feels the same way about me. We talk to each other for at least an hour every day. In all seriousness, I would trust her with my life. And she sounds exactly like you.

I don't know what you did, but I would never turn on a friend because of something terrible they are going through. I wouldn't abandon you now, nor would I look upon you as a "charity case." I trust you. Updated On: 10/24/04 at 11:57 PM

[insomniak]

Posted: 10/24/04 at 11:59pm

*sigh*

PM me if you want the AIM convo.

[insomniak]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 12:00am

and you have to remember- I'm very different offline.

[Type_A_Tiff]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 12:02am

We're all different offline. I'm not actually this nice of a person. At all.

As for what you're doing - is it healthy? No. Is it normal? Maybe not. But can I understand why you do what you do? Yes. It's human nature. It's just that some people, such as yourself, are honest enough to admit it, as opposed to other people. Reputation counts. I don't blame you for being worried about it. Especially if this girl you hurt screwed you over. F*CK her feelings. (Honestly.)

[Delphine]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 12:05am

Thus spoketh Tiff.

[Type_A_Tiff]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 12:07am

Try putting THAT as your signature!

Ak - PM me the AIM convo. I'm too lazy to actually go onto AIM for you to send it to me.

[insomniak]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 12:07am

I don't know what else to say. I saved an AIM conversation from Saturday that sums it all up. PM me if you want to read it... it makes more sense.

[Type_A_Tiff]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 12:14am

sure send it over. it takes too much energy to send you a PM telling you to do it. then i have to like, lift the mouse, click the PM link under your name, type into the pop up box...echh....

[insomniak]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 12:16am

Sent.

[Type_A_Tiff]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 12:25am

Got it. Makes sense. To best remedy this, even if you don't care if she rots in hell, you're gonna have to apologize to her, tell her you know what you did is wrong and that *you're reformed*, and work from there, regardless of whether it's true or not. It's the only way to fix your rep.

[Delphine]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 12:41am

Do you really even like this girl? Does her friendship mean much to you other than support in a high social platform? If not, then maybe it's not worth the effort.

[Type_A_Tiff]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 12:53am

Well, it's worth the effort if you ever want to show your face at school again, knowing she's royally pissed and is spreading rumors about you. Is it worth the effort in terms of patching up your friendship? If not, who cares about it. Right now, you've gotta focus on getting through high school and finding people to sit with at lunch! (Wow, am I the devil on the shoulder or what??)

[Delphine]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 12:55am

Hey, I'm not much better!

I hadn't really considered the rumors. High school is so ****ing vicious.

[Type_A_Tiff]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 12:56am

Absolutely. God, I'd never go back to high school. Things get better, Som! Honest!

Edited: Cuz I can't type.

Updated On: 10/25/04 at 12:56 AM

[Guido Contini]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 1:43am

I'm bored...and confused...WTF is going on around here?

BTW...Nia is Nia, because I was too lazy a long time ago to type out insomNIAk

[Type_A_Tiff]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 1:45am

Too much to sum up. Start reading about 1 or 2 pages back.

[Guido Contini]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 1:46am

I did....I still can't follow along.

[Type_A_Tiff]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 1:49am

In short, Ak did something nasty to a friend, came clean about it (after asking the friend "hypothetically" what she should do if "someone" was in her situation, and the friend answered in a positive manner), the friend got pissed, and is now being quite nasty to Ak. Ak doesn't really care about the friendship, but is understandably worried about how to face her peers at school, particularly during lunch time.

I'm telling her she'll need to suck it up, make nice with said bitch friend, so she can save her reputation. But Ak is stressed.

[Guido Contini]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 1:51am

oh boy....i hope it all works out okay. ::meep::

[insomniak]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 2:11pm

That's about it.

At any rate... I now wish I had not posted any of this at all. It's really not fair to anyone here to dump all of my issues on them. People didn't come to bww to hear my problems, and I'm sorry for making them listen. I did a cold but thing to someone who, in my awful opinion, deserves it for the way she's treated me. I don't need to make it worse by extending my issues to a place that people come to to have fun. Please know that it won't happen again, and I hope you all will still talk to me. Thanks for understanding.

[Ebonic_Singer]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 5:09pm

Of COURSE we'd still talk to you--are you CRAZY????!

[insomniak]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 6:53pm

Yes, I am.

But we won't go there. It's not worth losing my online friends to.

But thanks, Ebonic.

[Guido Contini]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 6:54pm

Nia, if I have to say I love you one more time...I'm gonna plotz, kiddo! So...stop being a mini-hussy and love us back!!

[insomniak]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 6:55pm

What?

Of COURSE I love you. That better not be doubt I read in your post.

I do miss the plotzing thread.

[Guido Contini]

Posted: 10/25/04 at 7:00pm

It was doubt.

Here's a thought, let's all try this thing I heard about the other day....it's called "HAPPINESS".