Honestly, I've posted links in this thread before. It's not the best idea, but it's also not the end of the world. I don't think asking people to PM you/IM you is a step above just posting one link.
I actually found them on his MySpace, strangely enough.
His comments have seemed to have moved into "wow, you were really good" territory over "WILL YOU MARRY ME?" land, so I guess that's an improvement. Someone said he stole her Sharpie. Hee.